Because when you're not here [or maybe even when you are] I sit up eating chips and onion dip at 11:30pm [or cheese fries and sweet tea at 1am] while I catch up on what I've missed in the blog-o-sphere. Who does that stuff? Only the crazies. That's who.
I tell myself I'm doing us a favor because none of the littles eat plain chips unless there's dip around [which they may or may not know is currently in the fridge.] But that's what I tell myself anyway. Really, I should be prepping for this party. Cleaning, dusting, straightening. Nope, it's not happening. Not here. Not now. Just my pathetic little party of chips and dip and I ain't gettin any younger. It's catchin up to me, ya know?
Sometimes I wonder, am I the only one whose clothes shrink every summer? I tell myself this's happening everywhere. All over the country, women are trying on their shorts and saying, "Oh dang. Somebody dried these on high heat just before I put them up for the winter." Yep, and the sad part about that is, I don't even care. I keep thinking it'd be great to get back to the gym. To pop in the spinning class and pump out 20 miles. To get back on the yoga mat and stretch my very inflexible body in the Yin & Yang class. Come out, feeling peaceful and...stretchy? Yes, yes, that's all fun for awhile, but then it gets old. And really, when would I have time for that? No, seriously?
You not being here means our house has gone up in a tornado. The yard looks nice. The weed eatin's done. The chicken house's finally clean. It all looks fine and dandy from the outside. Step on in. The desk, as it always is, is a whirlwind of dishes [mine, of course], papers, bills, and notes. There's an odd bottle of baby powder, a ton of books, an assortment of every kind of paper imaginable. Desk-top-madness. It's a recipe for bill/schedule disaster, I tell ya. You're lucky I do the bills online, huh?
Oddly, I miss taking our clothes to the laundry mat there. Laundry mats have always scared me. Sketchy people, thinking you're gonna steal their detergent or something. Not this laundry. The folks were nice, quiet and there was nothing but the sweet smell of cleanliness and the soothing sound of whirring machines. Even with the missing floor tiles, I felt almost at home. OK, not really. Anyway, it calmed me. Reminded me that we were happy there with you.
Now we're here. And you're there. I feel like we're awaiting trial. The days drag on. Time stands still. Everybody wears their sadness just under the collar. It's only Monday. What ever happened to "time flies"? Where's all that? I tell myself this is temporary. Things won't be like this for long, but then I count the weeks, the days and it just seems like an eternity. I feel guilty complaining, seeing as I have a million things to keep me busy around here. I'll quit. No thank you, no cheese with my whine, I've had two little bags of chips and dip, thankyouverymuch.
Friday, April 13, 2012
After spending a week there, we've returned from "The Prairie State"
and Lord knows, I'd rather be there more than any where at all.
This new place where cornfields sprawl the land, it was beautiful.
Different from anything we've seen before.
It was flat, sweeping, and vast.
There are few pictures from this trip.
Why? Well, I felt cursed by my camera.
As if the click of the shutter would speed up time.
As if leaving it contently in the bag would stop the clock and so,
I dared to touch it until the last few days.
I wanted more than just a week to aimlessly wander around taking pictures.
Weird, I know.
The man, who has gravely missed his daddy from Day One,
was the happiest I've seen him in two weeks.
I can't even begin to explain how sorrowful he's been.
He was my super-happy child and when daddy left to take this new job,
it was like the bottom dropped out of his world.
I'm not gonna lie to you, life has been rough.
But, not this week.
But, not this week.
He's been a crazy-happy boy.
He was joyful about every. little. thing.
Even a slice of bread.
So many times though, he told me he didn't want to leave and I was right there with him,
"I don't wanna leave either, buddy, but we've gotta go home and finish up school."
I dreaded it, packing our things, driving 14 hours to a place he and I'd rather not be.
But we had to.
Now that we're "home", it feels empty and cold without you.
All of our family, friends, animals, belongings,
everything that should feel familiar and comforting, they're not.
I want so badly to lay my head on your chest and fall asleep to the beat of your heart.
It's lonely here and I feel like I'm just going through the motions.
Each day feels like an eternity without you.
Posted by imjustmk at 11:18 PM
Thursday, April 12, 2012
We're on Easter break.
And I vowed to myself I wouldn't blog,
I'd savor my time here in IL.
Oh, and I didn't pack my camera-to-computer cable,
or whatever it's called,
for that very reason.
And you know how I hate posts without pictures.
It's just not my thing.
So, I promise,
as soon as I get back,
Posted by imjustmk at 3:10 PM